When you’re on top in reverse cowgirl, you also run less risk of accidentally falling afoul of your partner’s penis or strap-on entering you at a painful angle. For people who experience anxiousness around penetration, this position is a useful tool in the toolbox. Alternatively, says Davis-Fainbloom, “use a hands-free vibrator or have the penetrator hold the vibrator in place.” The penetrating partner can also use a free hand to put a finger or butt plug into the anus of a partner who is being vaginally penetrated. This double penetration can lead to extremely intense orgasms. The penetrating partner could also use their hands to pull their partner’s hair or scratch their back.
